Selective

Naturally, all are selective of people they want to open up
Cos of the trust, and fear of the gossips that might follow
Naturally, that is fine, cos nobody want to be so wind up
Where one own secrets walk is the cause to one own gallows.

Naturally also, all are selective of friends they want to talk to
Cos of the truth, and fear that all don't hear what they want
For most of the time, all seek others to agree to our thoughts
Where all only seek approval for their faults, esp. really bad ones.

Naturally, all are selective of who are not good listeners, preferably dumb as well
Cos all are not seeking advice, just seeking a pair of soft ears
For most of the time, insights, and hints are not so swell
Esp. when they are hard on the soul, yet verified the fear.

Naturally, been selective, is not about trusting
Cos, honestly, it is far from been truthful
All should ask ourselves:-
To find someone whom all trusts, is it to know the truth of ourselves
Or it is to find assurance of ourselves and thoughts
At the end of the day, are all lying to ourselves
Or are all even been honest at all.

While all always said "We don't want to walk on egg shell"
Apparently, all don't talk the walk.

While, many genuine friends are waiting with open ears and open mind
These are the friends been ignored for their honesty
After all "Honesty is not the best policy"
Neither is lying, but all chose one that is gentler to oneself
Naturally, all are been selective indeed
Even to themselves, when given the option to be honest or not.

Been selective, is not been selecting wisely
It is been picky to one's own contend, and purpose.